Showing posts with label Great Loves. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Great Loves. Show all posts

29 February 2012

Great Loves in History: Antony & Cleopatra--Was it Love or Politics?



By Stephanie Dray



Few lovers in history are more famous than the notorious Queen of the Nile and her Roman general. But was it love between them, or was their alliance one of mutual political need?


Cleopatra was a clever queen who had been swimming in the waters of a burgeoning Roman empire for some time. Antony was not--after all--her first Roman general. First, there was Julius Caesar, the father of her son Caesarion. A young queen in exile, she'd rolled herself out at the feet of the warrior, surrendering herself to his mercy, and hoped for the best. As it turned out, she was a shrewd judge of character. Caesar liked a girl with guts, after all, and they are said to have become lovers that very night.


Though Cleopatra is generally portrayed as the young seductress in this arrangement, we might want to remember that Caesar was many years her senior. He was an experienced lecher who held every last bit of power in the situation. It is more likely that he seduced her. However, the fact that he seems to have also fallen in love with her was much to her benefit. Caesar showed great favor to the young Egyptian queen, going so far as to install a gilded statue of her in his family temple. Some say that his infatuation with her appeared to be a midlife crisis of epic proportions. Cleopatra was no doubt very grateful to him; he had been her savior. He gave her a throne, slew her enemies, and left her with legions for protection.


Her relationship with Antony began on a different note entirely. After Caesar's assassination, she was forced to navigate the tricky waters of a Roman civil war. She certainly seems to have held her own. And though Antony summoned her to Tarsus for an accounting, she seems intent on meeting him as an equal, if not a superior. She went to him in a gilded barge, dressed as a goddess.


Their courtship was well-publicized. They were the Brangelina of their time. (Cleopantony?) They feasted. They wore costumed. They partied late into the night. She invited him to Egypt--and he accepted. There, they conceived their twins, Cleopatra Selene and Alexander Helios. A good time was had by all.


But the moment Antony was free to marry Cleopatra, he married Octavia instead. This leads some to wonder whether his heart was really in it when it came to Cleopatra. Similarly, as the man who would be known as emperor Augustus began to rise in power, Cleopatra needed Antony to advance her son's interests. When they got back together, it was because Antony needed Cleopatra's money and she needed his power. Reason enough for people to doubt that theirs was a love match.


However, I like to believe that hard choices show people's true colors. As we all know, Cleopatra and Antony lost the Battle of Actium. They lost the world. And in the end, they could have turned on one another. In fact, their enemy appears to have offered them both, individually, incentive to do away with the other. Both of them, in various ways, simply refused to part with the other.


Clearly, there was some distrust in the end. Antony worried that Cleopatra would betray him. She had to prove to him several times that she wasn't going to poison him or otherwise abandon him. When he killed himself, it was because--some say--he was certain that Cleopatra was dead, and then when he lay bleeding, found out that she was alive, and thought it was a trick. But the queen's behavior at the death of her beloved tells us everything.


She wept and howled and tore at her clothes and body in grief. She locked herself up with his corpse and tried to turn a knife on herself. Then she refused to eat at the very time she ought to have been negotiating with her conqueror. In short, she behaved like a person who lost someone she loved. And in the end, she followed Antony into death.


Their union may have been about politics...but it was also about love.


Images: Jean-Leon Gerome, Cleopatra before Caesar and Lawrence Alma Tadema, Antony and Cleopatra, courtesy of Wikimedia Commons



Stephanie Dray's SONG OF THE NILE and LILY OF THE NILE, are available now from Berkeley Books. Both novels are set in the Augustan Age and feature Cleopatra's daughter. 

14 February 2012

Great Loves in History: ‘An Immoderate Passion’: Queen Anne of Great Britain and Sarah Churchill, Duchess of Marlborough


By Heather Domin


British history is littered with royal favorites rumored to be something more: Edward II and Piers Gaveston, Elizabeth I and Robert Dudley, James VI and George Villiers, and so on. One story that is slightly lesser known – but no less dramatic – is that of Queen Anne of Great Britain and her closest frenemy, Sarah Churchill, Duchess of Marlborough.

Sarah Churchill, Duchess of Marlborough
Anne and Sarah were opposites in almost every way: Sarah was beautiful, charismatic, and assertive; Anne was plain, sickly, and reserved. Since childhood they had been devoted to each other, ignoring etiquette by calling each other pet names and discussing everything like equals. As an adult Princess, Anne’s dependence on Sarah strained her other relationships, and plenty of drama had already gone down by the time Anne ascended the throne in 1702. Promoted to the new Queen’s chief lady, Sarah morphed into a kind of stage manager, influencing almost every aspect of Anne’s life.

As with other royal favorites, rumors began to fly. Observers noticed the closeness between the two, calling it “undue” and “an immoderate passion”. Anne’s letters to Sarah are full of syrupy declarations, but in those days it was common for women to express affection for each other in ways that might be considered romantic or sexual today. But regardless of whether the affection between them was romantic, platonic, both, or neither, it’s a fair argument to say that Sarah Churchill was the great love of Anne’s life.

Queen Anne of Great Britain
At first Anne followed Sarah’s direction slavishly and refused to hear criticism of her; but eventually she grew weary of the domination she had been addicted to for so long. Their arguments were theatrical and went on for months. Sarah berated the Queen in public when her demands were refused, which happened more and more frequently; when Anne’s husband died in 1708, Sarah tried to control how she mourned, which proved to be the final straw.

Another lady, Abigail Masham, rose to top spot in the Queen’s affections. Furious, Sarah insinuated that Anne and Abigail were lovers, implying that Anne regularly enjoyed lesbian trysts with her ladies. She later wrote a memoir painting herself as a victim and the Queen as essentially useless. Queen Anne’s image as a slovenly, stupid, histrionic mess derives mostly from Sarah’s account, which influenced her early biographies – in reality, her stupidity was about as real as Anne Boleyn’s sixth finger.

The relationship between Queen Anne and Sarah Churchill was fiery and melodramatic, spanning most of Anne’s life and inspiring several novels in addition to biographies of both women. But was it ever a love affair? Their story is a rollercoaster of devotion, drama, and duplicity – but is it a love story? Like all the best royal rumors, no one can ever really know for sure. 





08 February 2012

Great Loves in History: Shah Jahan & Mumtaz Mahal

By Lisa J. Yarde

In 1632, the Mughal Emperor of India, Shah Jahan commanded the construction of a fabulous, white marble mausoleum, inlaid with gemstones. The Taj Mahal is considered a tribute built in loving memory of Shah Jahan's favorite wife, Mumtaz Mahal.


Mumtaz Mahal
Mumtaz Mahal was born Arjuman Banu Begum, a member of the Persian nobility. In 1607, while at a marketplace, the 14-year old's beauty caught the attention of a vain, young Mughal Prince Khurram, who was a grandson of Emperor Akbar the Great. Khurram declared his intentions to marry the girl, but they would have to wait for an auspicious date from the court's astrologers. There was a year's difference in age between Mumtaz and her eventual husband. After their wedding took place in 1612, the young prince bestowed the title Mumtaz Mahal, "Ornament of the Palace" on his wife and they shared 19 years of marriage, despite the intrigues of his stepmother Nur Jahan (incidentally, a paternal aunt of Mumtaz Mahal).  Mughal succession did not always favor the eldest son. For a time, Prince Khurram was his father Jahangir's favorite and earned the title Shah Jahan for his prowess in battle against his father's enemies.


Shah Jahan
Although Khurram married two other women and dutifully sired children with him, he showed great devotion to Mumtaz Mahal. She remained at his side as the court traveled through India, on his military campaigns and hunting expeditions. Mumtaz Mahal might have also been forewarned of her husband's intention to murder his younger brother and rival claimant, Khusrau, and rebel against Jahangir in 1622. The rebellion ended in defeat for Khurram four years later. He had to send two of his sons, including the eight year-old child of he and Mumtaz, Aurangzeb, as hostages to their grandfather's court. Mumtaz Mahal would not see her sons for another two years. When Jahangir died and Khurram ascended to the throne of the Mughals in 1627 as Emperor Shah Jahan, Mumtaz Mahal gained further prominence as a trusted adviser to her husband . She gave birth to fourteen children, but only half of them survived to adulthood.


Taj Mahal
In June 1631, Mumtaz Mahal accompanied Shah Jahan on a military campaign to the Deccan Penninsula, despite being heavily pregnant. She died at the city of Burhanput after giving birth to their daughter. Official accounts describe Shah Jahan's grief-stricken state upon the loss of Mumtaz Mahal. Heartbreak "crumbled his mountain-like endurance." At first Shah Jahan interred his beloved wife's body at the site of her death for six months before he had her escorted to Agra six months later. He retreated from public appearances and when he finally emerged, the hair on his head had turned from black to completely white. Within several months, the construction on the Taj Mahal began. Another 22 years passed before it ended. Centuries later, the Taj Mahal still stands, its four minarets piercing the sky at Agra. It houses the remains of Shah Jahan and his beloved Mumtaz Mahal.

Lisa J. Yarde writes fiction inspired by real-life events. She is the author of On Falcon's Wings, a medieval novel chronicling the star-crossed romance between Norman and Saxon lovers. She has also written the medieval novels Sultana and Sultana’s Legacy, both set during a turbulent period of thirteenth century Spain.